Why It’s Called That

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The name came from a long run of conversations — proper heart-to-hearts where people admitted they knew exactly what was wrong in their lives… yet kept doing the very thing causing the damage.

 

It wasn’t ignorance.
It wasn’t mystery.
They could point straight at the problem — name it, describe it, even laugh about it — and then walk right back into it the next morning.

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At some point, you realise it isn’t bad luck or fate or other people holding you back.
It’s you.
Your choices.
Your patterns.
Your refusal to take the step you already know you need to take.

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That’s where the title came from.
Not as an insult — but as a well-aimed tap on the chest.
A reminder that life only starts moving when you stop dodging responsibility and finally step up.

 

This book is that wake-up call.
A bit of tough love, a bit of clarity, and a big push toward the life you keep saying you want.
Because once you grow up a bit — even just a bit — everything else follows.